Honestly, I still struggle to get everything done that I need to. There’s always a fire somewhere. My wife has the same problem. We keep coming back to the same thing: a wish that we had a day that we could just focus on work and leave the other distractions behind. So we invented Alpha Day. That’s the day when we can leave family time to the other person and go to bed as late as we want. It has worked pretty well for us. It’s nice to be able to let the other person handle the errands and kids for a day and just hammer down on the work to-do list.